Saturday, May 13, 2006

Free childrens' stories for the iPod




I found out about listening to stories on the Internet by another blogger momma. What a neat idea. We have collected quite a collection of stories on tape for the children to listen to when we are driving in the car, playing in the bedroom or for falling asleep at night. The kids really enjoy listing to them.

http://storynory.com/ is a great new concept in entertainment and education for children. It offers a growing library of classic and original children's stories for iPod owners (or any other MP3 player). The best part is you can listen to all their children's stories for free! Their stories include: A Christmas Carol, Hansel and Gretel, The Three Little Pigs, The Snow Queen, Little Red Riding Hood and they feature at least one new story every week.

StoryNory is our favorite but there are some other spots you can check out as well, such as:

http://www.playtime-books.com
http://www.astoryforbedtime.com
http://kayray.org/audiobooks/
Kayray is more for the older children since these are full books like, The Secret Garden and Heidi.

If anyone knows of some more great sites PLEASE let me know. :)

Thursday, May 04, 2006

Study: mothers deserve $134,000




I wonder if I am worth even more for having 4 children, 4 and under?
:) I got this from Yahoo News.


NEW YORK (Reuters) - A full-time stay-at-home mother would earn $134,121 a year if paid for all her work, an amount similar to a top U.S. ad executive, a marketing director or a judge, according to a study released Wednesday.

To reach the projected pay figures, the survey calculated the earning power of the 10 jobs respondents said most closely comprise a mother's role -- housekeeper, day-care teacher, cook, computer operator, laundry machine operator, janitor, facilities manager, van driver, chief executive and psychologist.

"You can't put a dollar value on it. It's worth a lot more," said Kristen Krauss, 35, as she hurriedly packed her four children, all aged under 8, into a minivan in New York while searching frantically for her keys. "Just look at me."

Employed mothers reported spending on average 44 hours a week at their outside job and 49.8 hours at their home job, while the stay-at-home mother worked 91.6 hours a week, it showed.

An estimated 5.6 million women in the United States are stay-at-home mothers with children under age 15, according to the most recent U.S. Census Bureau data.

NOT 'JUST A MOM'

"It's good to acknowledge the job that's being done, and that it's not that these women are settling for 'just a mom,'" said Bill Coleman, senior vice president of compensation at Salary.com. "They are actually doing an awful lot."

According to the U.S. Bureau of Labor Statistics, some 26 million women with children under age 18 work in the nation's paid labor force.

Both employed and stay-at-home mothers said the lowest-paying job of housekeeper was their most common role, with employed mothers working 7.2 hours a week as housekeeper and stay-at-home mothers working 22.1 hours in that role.

"Every husband I've ever spoken to said, 'I'm keeping my job. You keep yours.' It's a tough one," said Gillian Forrest, 39, a stay-at-home mother of 22-month-old Alex in New York. "I don't know if you could put a dollar amount on it but it would be nice to get something."

To compile its study, Salary.com surveyed about 400 mothers online over the last two months.

Salary.com offers a Web site (http://www.mom.salary.com) where mothers can calculate what they could be paid, based on how many children they have, where they live and other factors. The site will produce a printable document that looks like a paycheck, Coleman said.

"It's obviously not negotiable," he said.

On average, the mother who works outside the house earns a base pay of $62,798 for a 40-hour at-home work week and $23,078 in overtime; a stay-at-home mother earned a base pay of $45,697 and $88,424 in overtime, it said.

In a Salary.com study conducted last year, stay-at-home mothers earned $131,471. The potential earnings of mothers who work outside the home was not calculated in the previous study.



Tuesday, May 02, 2006

The Flu Bug Bites Hard



I think I can safely say that this week has been one of the more challenging ones God has asked of me in a long time. It all started the 22 of April when I realized that despite my best efforts I had developed a tract infection. I have already had one this pregnancy and really did not want to go on antibiotic again. Since it was the weekend anyway I thought I would pump up on cranberry, Vitamin C see and all those other herbal pills to get me through this. I guess I caught it too late because by Tuesday I felt *Ugh* the worse I ever wanted to get. Thank heavens my aunt volunteered to watch my children for the morning for I do not know how I would of coped. Shawn came home to help go to the doctors. Well to make a long story short my doctor was not in and the office refused to place me with someone else since I am having a home birth and they don’t want to be held accountable, can you believe it? I finally had to just go to ER too get the darn subscription. While waiting in the ER I started to get real clammy and thats when the effects of the flu hit me…hard. *sigh* What a day. For the next few days I was pretty much in bed having no appetite what so ever. Colette got it next. A 17 month old with the throw-up flu is not a fun thing as one can imagine. Friday seemed like things were getting back to normal. I actual was able to get down to Bakersfield with my cousin Julie while her sister watched my children for a few hours until Shawn would get home. I had a very enjoyable afternoon…lol until I got back. I walk into the house and see vomit on my rug minus a body over it. My husband throwing up in the bathroom and Gerard standing next to him half undressed with vomit on himself. Colette is screaming in her crib and Joseph who threw up earlier is in Gerard’s bed with a bowl next to his face. I don’t think I need to go on. You can get the picture of how the rest of my week went.

Why is it that when most likely needs their doctor they are not there? A child will always choose to become ill in the middle of the night. And last but not least: Any child who throws up will have invariably eaten something red, something chocolatey or something that requires a fork to clean it up?

By the end of our Flu invasion I was a basket case. I think the straw that broke the camel’s back was when I brought the boys something to drink and Gerard asked me what it was. I replied that it was 7-UP and he said, “no its not, it soda.” I fled to my bedroom crying hysterically. After that anything and everything could make me cry.

It’s been two days now that things have been calm. The laundry is running smoothly again. I know that more then likely we I have many more days like these but all I can do is ask God for the grace to get through one day at a time.

A Mother's Prayer



Dear Lord, it's such a hectic day,
With little time to stop and pray,
For life's been anything but calm,
Since you called on me to be a mom.

Running errands, matching socks,
Building dreams with building blocks.
Cooking, cleaning, and finding shoes,
And other stuff that children lose.

Fitting lids on bottled bugs,
Wiping tears and giving hugs.
A stack of last week's mail to read,
So where's the quiet time I need?

Yet when I steal a minute Lord,
Just at the sink or ironing board,
To ask the blessings of your grace,

I see then in my small one's face,
That you have blessed me all the while,
As I stop to kiss that precious smile.

...Author Unknown