Sunday, August 06, 2006

Our Baby Doll Has Finally Arrived!


She’s adorable and oh, how sweet she is.

Emily Grace was born at home on August 3rd at 9:41 pm weighing 8 lbs 14 oz. and 21 inches long.

Everything went very smoothly from start to finish. It was only about a 6 hour labor. There is something special and unique about every delivery I’ve had but the one thing that made this one so special was that I actually caught the baby myself, meaning Shawn and Linda pretty much just watched as I caught the baby and brought her up to me. I will never forget how she looked as I was bringing her up.







Wednesday, July 19, 2006

Pregnancy Up-Date




It's totally impossible, and to make matters worse Colette has been coming to bed with us on account of her not feeling well. Sick children tend not to lie very still. I don't know if it's due to lack of sleep or just the end of pregnancy hormones, but I've been feeling really grouchy and emotional these past few days.

Overall this pregnancy has by far gone the best then my other three but this last month has been the worst as far as being extremely achy. I am ready for my baby and I to be two separate people. I feel like one large lump.


My Poor husband Shawn has been a great sport but I know that he too would like to get his wife back.

I am about one week
away from the due date but I have my reservations about that as well. I have always been about two weeks late and that would put me in early August which just seems VERY far away when I already feel like I can’t go on like this one more day. *sigh* Oh well, All for thee, Jesus.




This is a 3-D picture of what a 3rd Term baby looks like. Pretty cramped in there.
Most of the lanugo is gone as the baby prepares for its final womb days. The lungs are maturing and surfactant production is increasing. The baby can't move too much anymore as its womb space has become very crowded. The average size baby is over seven pounds at this point.

Sunday, July 16, 2006

Little Fever Pick-Me-Up



Colette has not been feeling well for a few days. She tends to get more fevers then the boys had at this age. Fevers always bother me but Colette has been drinking water and juice like there’s no tomorrow, which is the best things for her. Last night however she had a delightful time playing in the kitchen sink for at least 45 minutes. It was nice to see back to her old self for a while.

Free movie tickets for kids


I thought that this was worth passing on for larger families that are always looking for fun yet affordable things to do together. Participating movie theaters are offering movie tickets for kids and family for $1 or less. Most are matinees and G- or PG-rated.

Regal Entertainment Group offers free 10 am admission every
Tuesday and Wednesday
AMC Theaters offer free 10:30 am admission every Wednesday
CineMark offers 10 shows for $5 or $1 per show
Crown Theaters offer up to two free tickets to "A" and "B" students.

Thursday, July 13, 2006

Just Heartbreaking


Many of you probable know of Regina Doman. She is the author of several Catholic young adult and children’s books, including "Angel in the Waters”. Her book “Shadow of a Bear” was my favorite book as a teen.

Her 4-year-old son Joshua died in tragic car accident that the parents were driving. *Sigh* I can only imaging what the family is going through. I know that there are many parents that have lost their children through tragedy but this particular incident has really hit me personally. Please say a short Hail Mary for this family right now. We can never underestimate the power of prayer.


O Lord, whose ways are beyond understanding,
listen to the prayers of your faithful people:
that those weighed down by grief
at the loss of this (little) child
may we find assurance in your infinite goodness.

We ask this through Christ our Lord.
R. Amen.



An article by Father Jonathan Morris.
http://www.foxnews.com/story/0,2933,203336,00.html

Regina Doman's Notepad
http://www.snowwhiteandrosered.com/reginaupdate.htm

Thursday, July 06, 2006

4th of July!

We went down to my parent’s house for the 4th. It was just for the day but we had a good time. Around dinnertime we went to our friends house for a BBQ and Pool party. Here are some photos of the day.











Car Purchase


Here is Colette showing off the car we bought this last weekend. It's a 03 Mazda Prodigy. A replacement car for daddy after what happened this last month. After praying a 9-day novena to St. Joseph we really feel like this was the right purchase to make and both Shawn and I happy with it. I am so used to driving the mini van that this one is a fun change.

Thursday, June 29, 2006

Children... Children Everywere!

We were going to have our monthly Midwife Meeting at my house this last Wednesday but one of Linda's Bakersfield mothers went into labor so we had to reschedule until the 5th of July. Since we had already made plans to meet some of us mothers still got together. There were six of us mommies, two of which are expecting and a total of 24 children under the age of ten. Lol, even I have to sit back and ask myself…”how do we do it?”






Monday, June 19, 2006

Ice Cream Faces

4 ½ year old Joseph treated his siblings to Thrifty Ice cream the other day with 5 dollars that he received from family. What a sweet boy. This is Colette’s first hands-on ice cream cone. She made a mess but it was worth seeing her enjoy her treat as much as she did.



Sunday, June 18, 2006

Happy Father's Day



TO my darling husband. You are an amazing husband and father. God blessed us with a very special man to care and share with us. A father who has made our world a happy place to be in. Happy Father's Day!


"And, ye fathers, provoke not your children
to wrath: but bring them up in the nurture
and admonition of the Lord."
~Ephesians 6:4~



His Special Place


Mother is all that is noble and fine,
And all that is right and good.
She richly deserves every sonnet that’s sung
To her glorious motherhood.
And when Mother receives some fresh acclaim
The whole wide world is glad,
But away down deep in every heart
There’s a place that is just for Dad.

We may not shower him with praise
Nor mention his name in song,
And sometimes it seems that we forget
The joy he spreads as he goes along,
Bu tit doesn’t mean that we don’t know
The wonderful role that he has had.
And away down deep in every heart
There’s a place that is just for Dad.

- Author Unknown




And now just a little history on the beginning of Fathers Day.

Sonora Dodd, of Washington, first had the idea of a "father's day." She thought of the idea for Father's Day while listening to a Mother's Day sermon in 1909.

Sonora wanted a special day to honor her father, William Smart. Smart, who was a Civil War veteran, was widowed when his wife died while giving birth to their sixth child. Mr. Smart was left to raise the newborn and his other five children by himself on a rural farm in eastern Washington state.

After Sonora became an adult she realized the selflessness her father had shown in raising his children as a single parent. It was her father that made all the parental sacrifices and was, in the eyes of his daughter, a courageous, selfless, and loving man. Sonora's father was born in June, so she chose to hold the first Father's Day celebration in Spokane, Washington on the 19th of June, 1910.

President Calvin Coolidge, in 1924, supported the idea of a national Father's Day. Then in 1966 President Lyndon Johnson signed a presidential proclamation declaring the 3rd Sunday of June as Father's Day. President Richard Nixon signed the law which finally made it permanent in 1972.





And in the same way -- by our faith -- the Holy Spirit helps us with
our daily problems and in our praying. For we don’t even know
what we should pray for, nor how to pray as we should; but the
Holy Spirit prays for us with such feeling that it cannot be
expressed in words. And the Father who knows all hearts knows,
of course, what the Spirit is saying as he pleads for us in harmony
with God’s own will. And we know that all that happens to us is
working for our good if we love God and are fitting into his plans.
Romans 8:26-29

Saturday, June 17, 2006

Camping

Because of not being able to post pictures this post is a little late. We went camping in the middle of May. Better late then never though. :)

Our first camping trip and I must say a great success for a family with three children under 5. We went to Lake Isabella, which is only about 1 hour and 45 minutes away from where we live. We brought my 9-year-old brother, James with us and they all seemed to have a wonderful time.


Colette was eating Red Liqurorish. She tried to put the last two pieces on her ears for earrings. :)






The squirrels were VERY friendly. Joseph had a grand time giving them peanuts to open.



Daddy and Gerard fishing together. I love this one. :)






You can see Daddy way out in the water trying to fish. I’m afraid the children are not very good at no splashing while fishing.

I'm Back



Gosh, I have been having a heck of a time with this blog. I could not post pictures for the longest time. Thanks to my man, Shawn I am now back and running. :)

Monday, June 05, 2006

Ramblings on Birth and Safety





I don’t know if anyone saw this story on dateline NBC but it was just tragic. http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/9818616/ A mother lost her life after having a “routine” epidural. This brings up a bunch of issues for me, as I'm sure it does for others. Epidurals are a risk! When you tell people that you plan on having a natural childbirth most people look at you in shock. “I could never do that, you’re so brave.” People think that you are some “nature girl”. Lol No people, you’re the brave one if you have epidurals. A long needle going into my back. Drugs going into my SPINE! Augh. No thank you!

I have never been able to understand the concept that some people have on not wanting to have a baby at home just because it not as “sterile” as a hospital. What a bunch of bunk. Like it says in the article up above. “Infections contracted in hospitals are the fourth largest killer in the United States, causing as many deaths as AIDS, breast cancer and auto accidents combined.” For myself just being with my husband in the hospital overnight I can say that my house is a lot cleaner then the hospital, and we are not talking about clutter, I would loses on that one. :) While we were in the ER I saw plenty of blood drops on the ground and when they did get around to “cleaning” it was just with a wipe of some sort. I would rather take a chance with the germs I am accustomed to in my own home.

Why my husband and I have choosing to have home births is not just because of this one concern but because of many different reasons. We feel that as parents we have a duty and responsibility to learn as much about pregnancy and birth from balanced and accurate sources so we can make the best-informed decision as possible. Is homebirth for everyone? Absolutely note. Is hospital birth for everyone? No. Most people who are not educated or familiar with the benefits and safety of homebirth and midwifery care have the reaction, “how could you do something so stupid?” Most of their information is what they have seen on TV, heard from others, and often it’s a competition of the most dramatic and problematic births. It would really empower women if they would take the time to question and learn about risks and befits of who they birth with and where they birth and not just let doctors use big words on their patents expecting them to follow their every word. Sometimes - the priority in the hospital is procedures, liability, protocols and convenience of staff and not our wishes for what is best for us or what we consider to be best for our baby's health and well being. It really is sad how misinformed society is about natural birthing. If more hospitals aloud midwives to play a more active and authoritative role we might just move up from being # 17 in the world on the mortality rate.


Shawn and I have decided to birth at home for some of these reasons:

1) We believe that pregnancy and birth are normal, physiological functions of a woman's body and that unless a clear medical indication presents itself they are not medical conditions to be "managed" or manipulated.


2) In most normal circumstances - A woman's body will instinctively know when the time is right to begin labor (don't need pharmaceutical inductions) if supported in the best environment for the woman with the most appropriate caregivers and surrounded by the best support system.

3) I want too ultimately have the right to decide who attends my birth and have the right to touch MY baby and bond with it gently as apposed to being staff-handled in the name of procedures and protocols.

4) Shawn and I have opted not to receive many of the newborn tests and procedures routinely done in a hospital and didn't want to have to fight the system each time (these include but are not limited to - eye ointment, vaccinations on the newborn, vitamin K shots, heel pricks/blood sugar testing, observation in the nursery, administering sugar water to an infant, pacifiers, etc)

5) I preferred to be up and mobile as opposed to flat on my back. I want to eat and drink at my will as opposed to an IV and ice chips (or nothing). I prefer my own clothes in my own home without feeling inhibited in an unfamiliar surrounding.

6) At home, we will be able to utilize many and various coping techniques. In the hospital, drugs and anesthesia are the most common type of 'help' repeatedly suggested to laboring women. From my own experience I believe that pain management is MUCH better at home!


We believe that for healthy, no/low risk women, homebirth is as safe or safer then being in a hospital. We are adults who shoulder the responsibility and the privilege of making these decisions about our baby’s birth.

I have found that since my husband and I have really researched this topic in great detail I am not at all hindered by negative remakes and can only feel badly for those that feel threatened by homebirthers when they decide that’s its not for them. We are all adults that need to feel like we have made the best-informed decision for our baby and us.


The largest North American study shows the safety of homebirth compared to hospital birth. It was published in the British Medical Journal a year ago.

http://bmj.bmjjournals.com/cgi/conte...505/1416?ehom_

Sunday, June 04, 2006

Car Accident



June 2nd, my husband Shawn and Joseph, my 4 year old were involved in a car accident in an intersection not far from our home. They are both going to be fine so Thanks be to God! Shawn does not remember anything after slowing down behind two cars at the stoplight. They were both unconscious after the crash for a short time but miraculously they had no trauma to the head at all. Shawn and Joseph were flown out by helicopter to KMC in Bakersfield because of that fact to see if there was any unseen damage. I was able to bring Joseph home late that night and he seems to be bouncing back just fine. Shawn had to stay over night in ER because of liver concerns. He is home now with medications for the pain. In the picture at the top you can see Shawn in the background. He is the one with the red shirt on lying by the road with the neck brace.

I feel very confidant the their angels were the ones responsible for keeping them alive and with no major complications. God is Good.

Shawn and I are just praising God that Joseph is still with us after looking at the pictures. I am so glad that I did not see the car till after seeing Shawn and Joseph first. Gilbert took these pictures today when he went to get our stuff from the car. The van that hit the car actually left his license plate in the trunk of our car. I'm sure everyone will be happy to hear that Shawn's PDA is still working, *Alleluia!!* although he is a little bummed that his cell phone is working too as it is starting to flake out on him. ;)

This is the article that our paper had on the collision.
http://www.tehachapinews.com/home/viewarticle.php?cat_id=383&post=16686







Saturday, May 13, 2006

Free childrens' stories for the iPod




I found out about listening to stories on the Internet by another blogger momma. What a neat idea. We have collected quite a collection of stories on tape for the children to listen to when we are driving in the car, playing in the bedroom or for falling asleep at night. The kids really enjoy listing to them.

http://storynory.com/ is a great new concept in entertainment and education for children. It offers a growing library of classic and original children's stories for iPod owners (or any other MP3 player). The best part is you can listen to all their children's stories for free! Their stories include: A Christmas Carol, Hansel and Gretel, The Three Little Pigs, The Snow Queen, Little Red Riding Hood and they feature at least one new story every week.

StoryNory is our favorite but there are some other spots you can check out as well, such as:

http://www.playtime-books.com
http://www.astoryforbedtime.com
http://kayray.org/audiobooks/
Kayray is more for the older children since these are full books like, The Secret Garden and Heidi.

If anyone knows of some more great sites PLEASE let me know. :)

Thursday, May 04, 2006

Study: mothers deserve $134,000




I wonder if I am worth even more for having 4 children, 4 and under?
:) I got this from Yahoo News.


NEW YORK (Reuters) - A full-time stay-at-home mother would earn $134,121 a year if paid for all her work, an amount similar to a top U.S. ad executive, a marketing director or a judge, according to a study released Wednesday.

To reach the projected pay figures, the survey calculated the earning power of the 10 jobs respondents said most closely comprise a mother's role -- housekeeper, day-care teacher, cook, computer operator, laundry machine operator, janitor, facilities manager, van driver, chief executive and psychologist.

"You can't put a dollar value on it. It's worth a lot more," said Kristen Krauss, 35, as she hurriedly packed her four children, all aged under 8, into a minivan in New York while searching frantically for her keys. "Just look at me."

Employed mothers reported spending on average 44 hours a week at their outside job and 49.8 hours at their home job, while the stay-at-home mother worked 91.6 hours a week, it showed.

An estimated 5.6 million women in the United States are stay-at-home mothers with children under age 15, according to the most recent U.S. Census Bureau data.

NOT 'JUST A MOM'

"It's good to acknowledge the job that's being done, and that it's not that these women are settling for 'just a mom,'" said Bill Coleman, senior vice president of compensation at Salary.com. "They are actually doing an awful lot."

According to the U.S. Bureau of Labor Statistics, some 26 million women with children under age 18 work in the nation's paid labor force.

Both employed and stay-at-home mothers said the lowest-paying job of housekeeper was their most common role, with employed mothers working 7.2 hours a week as housekeeper and stay-at-home mothers working 22.1 hours in that role.

"Every husband I've ever spoken to said, 'I'm keeping my job. You keep yours.' It's a tough one," said Gillian Forrest, 39, a stay-at-home mother of 22-month-old Alex in New York. "I don't know if you could put a dollar amount on it but it would be nice to get something."

To compile its study, Salary.com surveyed about 400 mothers online over the last two months.

Salary.com offers a Web site (http://www.mom.salary.com) where mothers can calculate what they could be paid, based on how many children they have, where they live and other factors. The site will produce a printable document that looks like a paycheck, Coleman said.

"It's obviously not negotiable," he said.

On average, the mother who works outside the house earns a base pay of $62,798 for a 40-hour at-home work week and $23,078 in overtime; a stay-at-home mother earned a base pay of $45,697 and $88,424 in overtime, it said.

In a Salary.com study conducted last year, stay-at-home mothers earned $131,471. The potential earnings of mothers who work outside the home was not calculated in the previous study.



Tuesday, May 02, 2006

The Flu Bug Bites Hard



I think I can safely say that this week has been one of the more challenging ones God has asked of me in a long time. It all started the 22 of April when I realized that despite my best efforts I had developed a tract infection. I have already had one this pregnancy and really did not want to go on antibiotic again. Since it was the weekend anyway I thought I would pump up on cranberry, Vitamin C see and all those other herbal pills to get me through this. I guess I caught it too late because by Tuesday I felt *Ugh* the worse I ever wanted to get. Thank heavens my aunt volunteered to watch my children for the morning for I do not know how I would of coped. Shawn came home to help go to the doctors. Well to make a long story short my doctor was not in and the office refused to place me with someone else since I am having a home birth and they don’t want to be held accountable, can you believe it? I finally had to just go to ER too get the darn subscription. While waiting in the ER I started to get real clammy and thats when the effects of the flu hit me…hard. *sigh* What a day. For the next few days I was pretty much in bed having no appetite what so ever. Colette got it next. A 17 month old with the throw-up flu is not a fun thing as one can imagine. Friday seemed like things were getting back to normal. I actual was able to get down to Bakersfield with my cousin Julie while her sister watched my children for a few hours until Shawn would get home. I had a very enjoyable afternoon…lol until I got back. I walk into the house and see vomit on my rug minus a body over it. My husband throwing up in the bathroom and Gerard standing next to him half undressed with vomit on himself. Colette is screaming in her crib and Joseph who threw up earlier is in Gerard’s bed with a bowl next to his face. I don’t think I need to go on. You can get the picture of how the rest of my week went.

Why is it that when most likely needs their doctor they are not there? A child will always choose to become ill in the middle of the night. And last but not least: Any child who throws up will have invariably eaten something red, something chocolatey or something that requires a fork to clean it up?

By the end of our Flu invasion I was a basket case. I think the straw that broke the camel’s back was when I brought the boys something to drink and Gerard asked me what it was. I replied that it was 7-UP and he said, “no its not, it soda.” I fled to my bedroom crying hysterically. After that anything and everything could make me cry.

It’s been two days now that things have been calm. The laundry is running smoothly again. I know that more then likely we I have many more days like these but all I can do is ask God for the grace to get through one day at a time.

A Mother's Prayer



Dear Lord, it's such a hectic day,
With little time to stop and pray,
For life's been anything but calm,
Since you called on me to be a mom.

Running errands, matching socks,
Building dreams with building blocks.
Cooking, cleaning, and finding shoes,
And other stuff that children lose.

Fitting lids on bottled bugs,
Wiping tears and giving hugs.
A stack of last week's mail to read,
So where's the quiet time I need?

Yet when I steal a minute Lord,
Just at the sink or ironing board,
To ask the blessings of your grace,

I see then in my small one's face,
That you have blessed me all the while,
As I stop to kiss that precious smile.

...Author Unknown